Successful People VS Unsuccessful People
The most important concept of success is :-
"SUCCESS IS A STATE OF MIND"
Below
are the 16 differences between successful people and unsuccessful people ,
followed by a picture itself:-
1. EMBRACE CHANGE VS. FEAR CHANGE
Embracing change is one of the hardest things a person can do.
With the world moving so fast and constantly changing, and technology
accelerating faster than ever, we need to embrace what’s coming and adapt,
rather than fear it, deny it or hide from it.
2. WANT OTHERS TO SUCCEED VS. SECRETLY HOPE OTHERS FAIL
When you’re in an organization with a group of people, in order
to be successful, you all have to be successful. We need to want to see our
co-workers succeed and grow. If you wish for their demise, why even work with
them at all?
3. EXUDE JOY VS. EXUDE ANGER
In business and in life, it’s always better to be happy and
exude that joy to others. It becomes contagious and encourages other to exude
their joy as well. When people are happier they tend to be more focused and
successful. If a person exudes anger, it puts everyone around them in a
horrible, unmotivated mood and little success comes from it.
4. ACCEPT RESPONSIBLY FOR YOUR FAILURES VS. BLAME OTHERS FOR YOUR
FAILURES
Where there are ups, there are most always downs. Being a leader
and successful businessperson means always having to accept responsibility for
your failures. Blaming others solves nothing; it just puts other people down
and absolutely no good comes from it.
5. TALK
ABOUT IDEAS VS. TALK ABOUT PEOPLE
What did we all learn in high school? Gossip gets you nowhere.
Much of the time it’s false and most of the time it's negative. Instead of
gossiping about people, successful people talk about ideas. Sharing ideas with
others will only make them better.
6. SHARE
DATA & INFO VS. HOARD DATA & INFORMATION
As we all learned in kindergarten, sharing is caring. In social
media, in business and in life, sharing is important to be successful. When you
share you info and data with others, you can get others involved in what you
are doing to achieve success. Hoarding data and info is selfish and
short-sighted.
7. GIVE PEOPLE ALL THE CREDIT FOR THEIR VICTORIES VS. TAKE ALL THE
CREDIT FROM OTHERS
Teamwork is a key to success. When working with others, don’t
take credit from their ideas. Letting others have their own victories and
moments to shine motivates them and in the long term, the better they perform,
the better you'll look anyway.
8. SET GOALS AND LIFE PLANS VS. DO NOT SET GOALS
You can't possibly be successful without knowing where you're
going in life. A life vision board, 10 year plan, 3 year forecast, annual
strategic plan, and daily goal lists are are useful tools of the
mega-successful people in your life. Get your vision and goals down on paper!
9. KEEP A JOURNAL VS. SAY YOU KEEP A JOURNAL BUT DON’T
Keeping a journal is a great way to jot down quick ideas or
thoughts that come to mind that are not worth forgetting. Writing them down can
lead to something even greater. You can even use mobile apps or your Notes
function in your phone. But don’t fool yourself by saying you keep a journal
and not following through.
10. READ
EVERY DAY VS. WATCH TV EVERY DAY
Reading every day educates you on new subjects. Whether you are
reading a blog, your favorite magazine or a good book, you can learn and become
more knowledgeable as you read. Watching television, on the other hand, may be
good entertainment or an escape, but you'll rarely get anything out of TV to
help you become more successful.
11. Operate from a transformational perspective vs. Operate from a
transactional perspective
Transformational leaders go above and beyond to reach success on
another level. They focus on team building, motivation and collaboration across
organizations. They're always looking ahead to see how they can transform
themselves and others, instead of looking to just make a sale or generate more
revenue or get something out of the way.
12. CONTINUOUSLY LEARN VS. FLY BY THE SEAT OF YOUR PANTS
Continuously learning and improving is the only way to grow. You
can be a step above your competition and become more flexible because you know
more. If you just fly by the seat of your pants, you could be passing up
opportunities that prevent you from learning (and growing!)
13. COMPLIMENT OTHERS Vs CRITICIZE OTHERS
Complimenting someone is always a great way to show someone you
care. A compliment gives a natural boost of energy to someone, and is an act of
kindness that makes you feel better as well. Criticizing produces negativity
and leads to nothing good.
14. FORGIVE OTHERS VS. HOLD A GRUDGE
Everybody makes mistakes; it’s human. The only way to get past
the mistake is to forgive and move on. Dwelling on anger only makes things
worse - for you.
15. KEEP
A “TO-BE” LIST VS. DON’T KNOW WHAT YOU WANT TO BE
A “To-Be” list is a great way to strategize for the future. I
want to be an elected official one day. I want to be a TED speaker. I want to
be the CEO of a public company. I want to be a great father and husband.
Unsuccessful people have no idea what they want to be. If you don’t know what
you want to be, how can you achieve success? What do you want to be?
16. Have
Gratitude vs Don't appreciate others and the world around you.
Moments of gratitude, each and every one, transform my life each
day- and unquestionably have made me more successful and more happy. The people
who you are grateful for are often the ones who have a huge part in your
success. Be sure to thank everyone you come in contact with and walk with a
spirit of gratitude and appreciation and even wonder, about the world around
you. Gratitude is the ultimate key to being successful in business and in life.
1 comment:
good one. Inspiring.
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